First comes love, then comes marriage – then comes the post-wedding blues?
When you actually get married, in reality, not a lot changes. Add to that, if your wedding day wasn’t the dream you imagined (and let’s be honest, there’s always issues), or it went just too fast… you might find yourself at a bit of a loss.
Wedding dreaming and planning takes up a lot of time. It’s normal, and common, to feel a bit disappointed with real life. My top tip for coping with those post-wedding blues – find something else to dream and plan about.
Now I’m not suggesting go out and get pregnant (unless that’s what you want!) but how about planning your honeymoon or a house renovation. Pick a new goal – run a marathon or raise money for a worthy charity. Relive your wedding day by putting together a wedding album, editing your wedding video, creating some wedding shadowboxes or attend to post-wedding admin by getting your dress drycleaned.
You will find these feelings will pass eventually (if they don’t, go visit your doc, mk?). In the meantime take up a project like suggested above, get out and active (execise always lifts my mood!) and keep in touch with your friends.