Wedding Speech Ideas for the Maid of Honour and Best Man

If you’ve been given the honour of the best man or maid of honour, you’ll be on the hunt for some awesome wedding speech ideas.

Well, you’ve come to the right place.

Being a best man or a maid of honour is a really special role. Great trust has been put in you to not only support the happy couple during their big day but to also deliver the perfect speech. It can be challenging to write one, so we’ve put together a collection of wedding speech ideas to get you started.

 

Simple Yet Useful Wedding Speech Ideas

First up, your speech isn’t about you; it’s about the newlywed couple. For that reason, it’s important that you carefully consider everything you want to include it in. When writing your speech, consider the following:

  • Thanking everyone for attending the wedding, and special thanks to specific people such as the celebrant, family and bridal party.
  • Introducing yourself and explaining your relationship to the bride or groom.
  • Any funny stories of the bride or groom are not X-rated, and that they are happy for you to share.
  • Find some meaningful and personalised quotes about love and happiness. One-liners are great here.
  • Share genuine praise for the newlyweds.
  • Keep it short but interesting. Guests don’t want to listen to long speeches.
  • Start and finish strong. This way you’ll get people’s attention, and have things ending on a high.

Other tips on preparing and presenting a wedding speech are:

  • Use cue cards rather than reading from paper or your phone.
  • Speak loudly and clearly so everyone can hear you.
  • Practise giving your speech aloud ahead of time, and timing yourself.
  • Use eye contact to connect with your audience.
  • Read the room. If your first joke falls flat, skip the next one.
  • Keep a steady pace and leave pauses.
  • Calm nerves with deep breathing, not alcohol.

At the end of your speech, remember to as guests to raise a glass to the happy couple! For more wedding speech ideas, we suggest taking a read of our articles How to Be An Amazing MC and How to Back Up Your Best Bud On Their Big Day. Your speech doesn’t have to be perfect, but it does need to be genuine. Speak from the heart and everything will be just fine.

If you’re wondering how many you should have, and who should be speaking, then check out our post on wedding speeches here.

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